Top Secret Tuesday - Possessive Guys
This is something that has bugged me for years, and it actually really came into realization how much it bugged me when I lost contact for a couple years with a good friend because his girlfriend was overly possessive and wouldn’t let him talk to his friends that were girls. I have a huge problem with guys that are possessive in that same manner. I believe that that kind of possessiveness goes to show just how much you really don’t trust the person that you’re with. But that’s possessiveness on a “we’re together” relationship level.
The other kind of possessiveness that I can’t deal with is on the friendship level. I was a tomboy growing up, all my friends were guys, I was more likely to have a guy friend than I was to have a girl friend just because I wasn’t prissy enough to hang with the girls and I didn’t care about primping and preening or barbies or any of that stuff too much, it just wasn’t my thing. I was more into the mud and digging holes for cars and trucks and dinosaurs to go through or put me on the grass field with a ball and I was happy.
Some of the guys that I’m friends with seem to think it’s their place to tell me about how the other guys that I’m friends with are not good. That pisses me off to no end. I’ll choose my friends and I don’t need my other friends moderating them. I don’t need some guy “friend” telling me about my standards and how they’re going to go out the window when I go head over heels for the next guy that crosses my path. I don’t need guys being jealous and thus getting possessive because they don’t want me talking to/seeing the other guy. I don’t need possessiveness in my life and I won’t stand for it.
I don’t need a leash around my neck, not by friends that are boys and not by boy friends. And that’s what the possessiveness of boys makes it feel like, it’s as though I can only go so far before I get yanked back and told what I can and cannot do.
I am a free spirit, and I will not be controlled by anyone. I’ll only put up with possessiveness for so long until I’m out of there friend of a long time or friend of a short time.
You are mine! ALLLLLLLLL mine!
I don’t think dinosaurs can drive cars and trucks.
well sure they can Fab Honey :) when the dinosaurs are pint size and the trucks are Tonka trucks.
How about this one, tying black cats to G.I. Joes and lighting them so that the G.I. Joes would take flight and if we were lucky loose their heads…
Partners are meant to compliment…not control. I can’t stand to see or hear when one person controls another in a relationship. (Don’t forget, girls and guys can be equally possessive.)
It’s funny because the older I get, the more I realize people have “these issues,” and the more I realize it stems from something that happened earlier in their lives.